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Holiday fun: The Chedi, Jennifer Vaaler Brewing Success, Remembering Matthew Perry
Dec
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Childfree Champions, while others chauffer little ones to soccer practice or untangle themselves from kiddie chaos, you are free to seize the day — perhaps indulge in a leisurely picnic with dear friends and a crisp Sauvignon Blanc, singing, “Wrap me up, I’m the whole damn package.”
Here's to being the architects of our own adventures. Stay fabulous! 🥂✨
INSIDE TODAY’S EDITION
❄️ Winter Wonderland: The Chedi Andermatt
💙 Remembering Matthew Perry
☕️ Brewing Success with Jennifer Vaaler
🎄 Creating Holiday Magic with Personal Traditions
💰️ Web Gems: The Best Curated for You
TRAVEL
Winter Wonderland: The Chedi Andermatt
Turn your pet-friendly dreams into reality by taking a snow-kissed journey to the Swiss Alps with your furry friend. Stroll hand in paw captivated by the majestic views and then elevate your high-altitude escape at The Chedi Andermatt with luxurious pampering for both you and your pup.
Moxie and Numi loved the in-room dining. Watch their video.
CURRENT EVENTS
“The best thing in my life is I can help people if they ask me to.”
This week we learned Matthew Perry's cause of death. A beloved actor without kids, Matthew grappled with the relentless and formidable grip of addiction throughout his adult years.
In a poignant interview, he opened up about his earliest memories, expressing a deep yearning for his mother's attention from the tender age of five. Accompanying her to high-profile events as the Press Secretary to Canadian Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau, Matthew longed for a connection that eluded him.
"All I wanted was for her to turn around and focus on me, be with me... I want your company, I want you to help me, I'm a kid... She never really did that... I still want the unavailable, the person who is not turning around."
Matthew acknowledges that his mother did nothing intentionally wrong, a sentiment we wholeheartedly share. However, this revelation underscores the unpredictability of where emotional scars may form in the complex tapestry of parenting. It serves as a reminder that some individuals who opt for a childfree life do so to prevent unintentional emotional wounds experienced in their childhood. 💙
CHOOSING CHILDFREE
Brewing Success with Jennifer Vaaler
Ever found yourself in a rocky relationship? Join the club! Meet Jennifer – a productivity coach who has overcome challenges and found purpose in championing a childfree life. From bitter beginnings in an emotionally abusive relationship to breaking free from the shackles of motherhood dread, Jennifer's journey is one you won't want to miss. Dive in!
COMMUNITY
Creating Holiday Magic with Personal Traditions
How do you celebrate the holidays? Whatever you do, make sure to savor them on your own terms. Here are some ways childfree individuals redefine the holiday narrative.
🥳 Accept — or decline — all party invitations. 🎵 Stream your favorite concert. 🍪 Bake a mountain of cookies and spread the joy by gifting them to family and friends. 🐶 Dress in matchy-matchy sweaters with your dog. 💡 Cruise around and enjoy other people’s decorations. 🎁 Exchange new pajamas. ✈️ Book a trip somewhere new. 😋 Treat yourself to a meal at your favorite restaurant, inviting friends who also don't have family plans. 🔥 Sit by the fireplace, sip hot cocoa (boozy or not), and play board games.
WEB GEMS
The Best Curated for You
Navigating Sterilization: Alice never wanted to have kids so she had her fallopian tubes removed. Read about the tough decisions, hurdles, and invaluable lessons she learned along the way.
Childfree Ally: This mom admits to having made snarky remarks about childfree women. But she also admits she had kids without a clear reason or deep desire, ultimately questioning societal norms and outdated notions of “maternal destiny.”
NYE in NYC: Bid adieu to 2023 with the help of this curated guide to wild parties and swanky dinners in the city that never sleeps.
Dating When You Don’t Want Kids: We all know people don’t read those profiles. Communicate your intentions upfront, repeat them, and then repeat them again. More advice for you SINKs in this article.
Use it or Lose it: Don't forget to spend your FSA funds before the deadline! Popular items: sunscreen, medical-grade light therapy, and genetic testing. It's the perfect time to treat yourself and make the most of those hard-earned funds.
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